Zsa-Zsa-Zsu - Not worth it
After a long time , I called him up .Saifi , my male alter-ego .We took no time to jump to our favorite topic relationships.And unlike any other guy , he opened up like a simple peeling of emotions .He confessed how he feels stuck up in new relationship when despite everything being a level higher then magnificent , he feels unhappy .
I concluded, he was suffering thorough “no zsa zsa zsu “ syndrome . Zsa zsa zsu ?? our very own Carrie Bradshaw from sex and the city coined this term , where she meant that feeling of “butterflies in stomach” , when you are head over heels in love with someone.The thrill, the excitement that makes a relationship worth sustainable.
Well , I will let Carrie retire and will take on from here .In my terminology , “zsa zsa zsu” is that an emotion where you are so much into another that you cannot see beyond them. The consuming feel that makes you go blinded for rest of the world. I like any girl yearn for such love. That is incredibly satisfying .
But we are in 21st the century for heaven’s sake. We got to seek our own interests too before falling desperately for someone.
So what if I’m not in so much love with anybody that I still remember myself .So what if I split the banana pie rather then giving all to my beau coz he loves it too much .I love it too. Isn’t it great to be in a relationship where you are little self-seeking and not giving up on all you love , for the one you love. I have a boyfriend who loves me and I love him, but then my story doesn’t end her, I have a job I love , I have friends I love , I have places to go and things to do and I get time to think about all this coz my love is not so consuming .
May be yes , I miss on that “zsa zsa zsu” feeling but by the end of day , when I think of what all I have then zsa zsa zsu looks diminished.
Very thoughtful!
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